‘Let us all follow my plan. Or else, do whatever you want – I don’t care anymore.’
We call such behaviour childish. It stems from being able to see the world in merely two binary shades – my way or NOT my way. Yet, most situations have several shades – not merely two. The more shades you can see, the deeper your understanding of reality.
Having a nuanced perspective comes with learning and experience – that is why a toddler is disappointed when her dad refuses to play with her at 5 AM. She is unable to understand the trade-offs that he has to make to realize her wish.
When you are pissed off about not having your way, have you overlooked some nuance?
“If we have data, let’s look at data. If all we have are opinions, let’s go with mine.”
― CEO of Netscape
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Hahaha! Precious – was this Marc Andreeson? Or Horowitz?
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I think this was Jim barksdale. Way back in the day..
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